Why Traditional Estate Planning Could Make You Wish You Were Dead!
Most people our age are under intense pressure: everything is quickly changing, the world simply isn’t what it used to be, and medical care is both impersonal and expensive!
One area that has not changed with the times is traditional estate planning. The cost of long term care and Medicaid planning are something that probably was not provided for or included in a will or living trust that your loved one with Alzheimer’s may already have.
It’s really important to understand that most attorneys who prepare estate plans have been taught using old cases, dealing with long-dead individuals who lived in a totally different time and place. From a health care standpoint, those old “death”-cases are pretty close to irrelevant.
Everything about today is changing rapidly, and one of the most important things to recognize is that during the last 100 years, the life expectancy of a North American has gone from only 47 years of age to around 82 years of age. Taking that into consideration, a staggering 1 in 10 people over age 65 have dementia or Alzheimers… but that number takes a frightening leap to fully ONE HALF of people over the age of 85 who have the disease!
We now face a wave of individuals who are living into their mid-80s and beyond. There are millions of people who face the high probability of living part of their lives in a long term care facility – especially those with memory problems. The traditional estate plan does not even take that mammoth tidal wave of change into consideration!
Typical estate plans are primarily designed to answer just a couple of questions, and to do it as cheaply as possible. Think about it; do you really want to take time out of a nice day and go sit down with a lawyer and talk about death and disability? Of course not!
So if you or your loved one are “normal,” then it’s very likely that even if you have created an estate plan, it’s old and stale. It was prepared pretty much by you saying to the attorney, “You know, everything is really simple. I don’t have any complicated issues, so I just want this to be as quick and inexpensive as possible.”
The end result is that the attorney asks you a couple of questions: your name, the name of your loved ones and who you want to leave things to. If your loved one was like most people, they wound up creating what’s called a “Sweetheart” or “I Love You” will. What that means is they told the attorney, “Listen. If I die I want to leave everything to my sweetheart. If she’s dead (or he’s dead), then I want to leave everything equally to my children. Nothing complicated. Quick and simple – that’s all we really need.”
Then the attorney, who had to comply with their desire to have it quick, easy and cheap, walks over to the paralegal, hands off this basic information, and the paralegal sticks it into a word processor that pulls up the same information that they had for the last guy that came through. They stick your loved one’s facts into somebody else’s form.
But that’s not the end of the story. There is a major underlying crack in the foundation that collapses completely when people don’t follow the “death”-rules of traditional estate planning. What if you:
1. Die quickly? Or,
2. Have a long term illness before you go?
Those lead to very different results.
The world has changed! According to the AARP, 70% of individuals who have reached age 65 will live a certain period of their lives in a long term care facility. For men, that could be an average of 2.2 years, and for women it’s an average of 3.7. What’s more, none of the public benefit programs, pensions, and traditional legal tools were designed to deal with millions of people facing long term care in nursing homes. What tends to happen when you have old, stale documents and then you don’t die quickly (but become disabled or have a memory impairment) is that the documents don’t help you save your hard-earned money. They just don’t work that way!
If this is the type of document your loved one with Alzheimer’s has, it’s time to get that changed now… if you wait, you could be putting your loved one in danger of being broke and out of money. The best thing you can do for your loved one is to put a special plan in place, that doesn’t ignore their need to have nursing care in the very near future. To find out if your loved one has a plan in place that will protect them (and their surviving spouse, if they die first), call my office at (913) 338-5713. We’ll tell you what steps you should take… or if there is nothing you need to do, we’ll tell you that, too.










